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NEW CUSTOMS:
Guru Ram Das composed a
hymn known as 'Lawan' in Suhi Mohalla 4,
page 773 of Guru Granth Sahib, and asked
his Sikhs to recite them to solemnize
marriages. The Sabad 'Lawan' embodies in
itself a lesson for the couple to
develop true love for each other. In
reality this Sabad is for a human being
to develop love for the divine ridegroom.
The Guru composed the
following Sabad to instruct his Sikhs in
the practice of their religion:
"He who calleth
himself a Sikh of the true Guru, should
rise early and meditate on God;
He should make an
effort early in the morning, bathe in
the inner tank of nectar;
Repeat God's Name
under Guru's instruction, and all his
sins and transgressions shall be erased;
At sunrise he should
sing the Guru's hymns, and whether
sitting or standing meditate on God's
Name;
The disciple who at
every breath meditateth on God, will be
dear to the Guru; The Guru imparteth
instruction to that
disciple to whom my Lord bestows His
grace;
The servant Nanak
prayeth for the dust of the feet of such
a disciple of the Guru who himself
repeateth
God's Name and causeth
others to do so."
(Gauri Ki Var- Mohalla
4, p-305-6)
SELECTION OF GURUSHIP:
Sahari Mal, Guru's
cousin from Lahore, invited the Guru to
grace his son's marriage. For some
reason the Guru could not go, but he
asked his eldest son, Prithi Chand to
attend the marriage. Prithi Chand
refused to go. His refusal is attributed
to possibly two motives. It is said that
he was incharge of the offerings that
were made to the Guru and was able to
furtively set aside much wealth for
himself. If he had gone to Lahore, this
illicit gain might have fallen in
somebody else's hands. Secondly he
thought that the time was fast
approaching for the selection of a
person to succeed his father as Guru and
so he should remain in Amritsar. Mahadev,
the Guru's second son, did not want to
go because of his indifference to
worldly affairs. The third son, Arjan
Dev agreed to attend the marriage. He
was instructed to stay on in Lahore
after the marriage to look after the
affairs of the Sikh Sangat of that
place.
After some time he
started feeling the pangs of separation
for his father and the Guru, and wrote
three letters, two of which were
intercepted by his elder brother, Prithi
Chand. A letter marked '3', reached the
Guru and Arjan Dev was immediately
recalled from Lahore. On his return he
told his father that he had sent three
letters. The truth came to light and
Prithi Chand was forced to produce the
other two letters. Thus Prithi Chand's
actions were exposed.
Guru Ram Das embraced
Arjan Dev, sent for five paise and a
coco-nut, and placed them before him. He
descending from his throne, seated him
there before the whole assembly of the
Sikhs. Bhai Buddha affixed the tilak of
spiritual sovereignty to Arjan Dev's
forehead, and thus he was proclaimed as
Guru Arjan Dev. This appened in August,
1581.
Prithi Chand became so
mad that he addressed his father in
abusive language. He told Bhai Buddha
that his father acted improperly in
giving Guruship to his younger brother.
He vowed that he would remove Guru Arjan
and would seat himself on the Guru Gaddi
(throne). The Guru counselled him not to
quarrel about it, but Prithi Chand
refused to submit and adopted an
attitude of open defiance.
Having nominated Guru
Arjan Dev, Guru Ram Das left for his old
headquarters at Goindwal. After a few
days He left eft this world on the first
of September, 1581. |